MY BEST FRIEND BETRAYED ME, HAD TWO KIDS FOR MY HUSBAND.

SO IT'S TRUE!!!

BISI, answer me! 

So what I have been hearing is true?

What is it? Go and ask Akin, stop making noise in my house and get out, Bisi was busy yelling at me. I couldn't believe it. The very  friend I trusted, did this to me.

What did you say Bisi? I should get out of your house ? YOU now have a house ? Do you remember how I have been of help to you since our childhood? When your parents were completely wretched?

This is how it happened:

My brother's and sisters 🙏 😢 

Why is life like this? Why can't there be someone you can at least trust? 

The only friend I have had since my teenage years has taken my husband and has already had two kids for him.

Right now, my head is boiling . My heart  is pumping faster than Usaint Bolt on the tracks.

My eyes are swollen because I have been crying for two days now.

I and Akin (My husband) met each other during our undergraduate times in the university of Calabar. Although we weren't in the same faculty. One thing led to the other, we fell in love with each other and starting a relationship which was very genuine .

Akin, was everything every woman could desire in a man  

He is loving, caring, tall, dark with a broad chest and very intelligent. Also, from a responsible background. 

I already concluded in my mind that he was going to be my husband.

All the while, I didn't suspect that Bisi my childhood friend had a secret admiration for Akin. 

We graduated and went for National Service. Akin had promised that immediately we were done with Service, we would get married officially.

Few days to the end of our service year, an opportunity came for me to proceed for a post graduate program in the U.K. Akin was happy for me and agreed that I should go for the course.

He however suggested that we get married before i travel abroad so as to ease up the processes. 

We eventually did traditional and court marriage before i left for the U.K

Because of the trust I placed on Bisi, who knew about my affair with Akin from day one (someone said they had been dating secretly) I secretly suggested to her to monitor Akin for me while I will be away. I encouraged her to always go to the house and help with chores and cooking stuff! And to ensure that no other lady enters our house or do anything with my husband. That is the error I made and I have now realized it.

While in UK  Bisi would be gisting me how Akin had been caged by her. That he can't even dare bring a lady to the house he knows that I will be told. 

I have spent 2 years and six months in UK but visited home twice during the period because after my studies I got a good paying job and my husband encouraged me to take the offer. We have been making plans for him to join me in the UK . Even right now, the documents are being processed.

Recently, one of my course mate back then in school chatted me on X (Twitter) asking why I broke up with Akin because she saw he Akin and Bisis with their two kids in a mall.

I told her that she was lying because my marriage  has no issue. But she insisted that Akin and Bisi are in a strong relationship.

I asked Akin my husband but he denied having any relationship with Bisi.

I decided to come to Nigeria unannounced and to my greatest shock Bisi was in my house with two kids.....

All my husband could say was that he can't explain how it happened, that he taught I will not come back . My parents are even blaming me. Some say I should divorce him immediately and move on with my life. 

I also discovered that he rented another apartment for Bisi with the money I have been sending home.

Well in all of these, I filed for a divorce returned back to the UK and moved on with my life.