THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...

 

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.

4. THE Resolution STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.

6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don't have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience.

Thanks for reading.

3 DARKEST SIDES OF WOMEN YOU DON'T KNOW

1. A woman can never love two men at the same time. It is always one. If you are not, you are not. There are no two ways around. That is why you usually see two women f1ght’ng for one man they love. A woman who loves you, smells everything that touches you including your clothes.

2. The s£¥ual desire in women is usually more than that of a man. Don't think it's only men that desired s£¥ more than women. Women desired s£¥ more than men only that it's in their nature to wait for men to ask for it. That is because women don't want to face rejection, embarrassment and insults no matter what they always want until someone saves them and take the blame.

3. Women don't keep secrets to someone they love no matter what you tell them. No matter what she says, wait till she meets someone she loves in bed, somebody who knows them more than you, somebody who knows what she's capable of doing, somebody who knows that she wouldn't hide anything from him; that's the person she will tell.

And, again, shyness and tears are not a valid effects to determine if she's a good woman, because a woman can fake it like a boss. They are capable of doing that.

When you cheat on her and she doesn't hæte you, she hætes that woman you ch£æted with. Ladies I'm sorry for exp0sing our secret.

Fso.

SOME HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE YOU WON'T BE TOLD

 

 SOME HARDEST PART OF MARRIAGE YOU WON'T BE TOLD

Marriage is sweet when you examine it from a far, of those who have successful marriage or the lovey-dovey of newlyweds, but when you enter into, you will discover that what is behind number six is more than number seven. 

Many prepare so well for the romantic aspects of marriage, but very few groom themselves for the realities in marriage. Do you know that the hardest part of marriage plays a dominant role in marriage than the romantic moments?

However, what breaks marriage isn't the lack of romance, but the couple's inability to withstand the hardest part of marriage. 

There are some hard things about marriage that you are not likely to be told, but I will only share 5 of them with you.

1. Staying faithful

It's easy to abstain from sex as singles if you have not tasted how sweet sex is, but it's very difficult to stay faithful in marriage when you are denied sex for no just reason. 

The temptation to commit adultery is greater than the temptation to fornicate as singles. 

Because you now know how sex taste, seduction would come from those who are willing to give you or have a fling with you. In some cases, when your spouse becomes cold on sex matters, there are several others who want to give you a hot and sizzling sex.

You need more discipline to stay faithful in marriage to your spouse emotionally, and sexually especially in this age when cheating has become a norm. 

If you have not been faithful to stay sexually pure now that you are single, it will be very difficult for you to master it when you are married. 

Marriage doesn't cure adultery, self control does! 

2. Sexual Issues

See, it is wise that you keep yourself sexually pure till marriage - purity in thoughts, action and word. All those who are deceiving you that who virginity epp only want to destroy you. 

One of the hardest part about marriage which many cannot come by is on the issue of sex. One partner is a novice while the other is an Emeritus professor in lovemaking; one has a high sexual libido while the other can stay for months without it and still feel sane. 

Virginity helps you to be sexually discipline, it prevents you from undue and ungodly exposure to sex that could either make you hate it with perfect hatred or make you a maniac in it. 

3. Money matters

Since it's said that money answers all things, money also destroys many things. As money can spice up love in marriages, it can also ruin it. 

What is your perception about money? 

Can you pull your purse together or separately? 

As a woman, do you have the warped mentality of my money is my money, but your money is our money? 

As a man, are you ready to work and earn a living or you want to live on your wife's income while dictating how the money will be spent without bringing anything to the table? 

Can you open up to your partner about your financial life without secretly building an estate in the village while you feed on his or her money like a parasite? 

Until you two resolve this before marriage and in marriage, it is hard enough to crack the nut of your marital bliss. 

4. Unmet expectations

If you have been dreaming of having her remain a slim shady, but eventually after pregnancy, she became a size 15, how would you cope? 

If he had been the romantic and available man, but after marriage, the quest for green pasture took him miles away, can you survive this? 

It is wise and better to prepare for the toughest part of marriage so that you can cope with them when they come, surely they will come. As much as you prepare for sunshine, don't forget to prepare for storms when they come before rain falls. 

5. Handling differences 

Whether you agree or not, handling differences is one of the leading causes of divorce in marriage. Many marriages fail due to irreconcilable differences. 

How do you plan to reconcile your differences in marriage should they come? 

If he presses the toothpaste from the middle, and she had been raised to be meticulous by pressing it neatly from the base, can you tolerate this? 

If she likes the food cold or warm, and you prefer it hot with steaming heat, can you adjust? 

These and many others are the toughest part of marriage that you must brace up for. Wedding is just a day or two event but marriage is a lifetime journey. 

More than the excitement of the married life, more than the grandeur wedding ceremony, have you been transformed by the renewing of your mind to face any challenge in marriage when they come? 

Delay in child bearing, loss of job, relocation, in law issues, financial crisis, trying times or spiritual issues may come; you need to be prepared for whichever one life throws at you so you don't chicken out when they come. 

Marriage is haaaard, I'm not scaring you; it's just one of those truths you might not likely be told or you don't want to hear. Finding the right person to marry is hard, but staying married is the hardest in the face of life's realities. 

As much as you are preparing for the romantic sides, brew your mind for the hardest part so you can stand having done all when the flood descend, when the rain falls and the wind beats upon your union.

THE PURPOSE OF THE WIFE'S BREASTS

 

1. To excite the husband. Breasts does something to men

2. To console the husband. When the husband is low or tired, laying his head there comforts him.

3. To aid in pleasing the wife sexually. Breasts are one of the many ways a man has to please his wife.

4. To act as a pillow, he lays his head there and they catch up to talk

5. To give him something to play with. Men are playful with breasts 

6. To refresh him. Sucking the wife's nipples makes a man feel good

7. To delight him exclusively, knowing only he gets to see her naked breasts

8. To rest. Men can have a wonderful nap or quality time laying on the wife's bossom 

9. To offer support as she cleans his ears. Some men love their ears being cleaned by the wife. It is one of those simple things that makes life special 

10. To make a wife feel confident of her love. She feels good him laying on her chest in absolute trust and surrender 

11. To give him warmth especially when it is cold. Breasts are so warm

12. To give him a surface area to draw with his fingers as he talks. Some men dribble on the skin of the breasts as the two engage in heart to heart conversations

13. To give him sexual entertainment. Men love watching boobs move or jump up and down when she is riding on top, working out, doing chores or playing around. These are some of the little pleasures men live for

Lady, regardless of the size of your breasts, sagging or firm they mean so much to your husband. Let him enjoy.

Fso said so.

AN IMPOTENT MAN CRIES OUT OVER HIS WIFE'S PREGNANCY!

 A man suffering from an issue of impotence has recounted a sad experience involving his wife who got pregnant.The man revealed in a post online that he has been having an issue with ere.ctile dysfunction.

It had led to the end of his first marriage, and being 54, he got married to another wife who was 25.He noted that his wife insisted on having her own child or else she would leave the marriage.

According to him, he and his wife came to an agreement about allowing her see other people.

He revealed that his wife eventually took in for another man and his wife is insisting that he accepts the child as his, and introduce the child to his family as his own.

The embattled man stated that the issue has left him deeply saddened.

Please hide my name. My first wife and I divorced in 2019 and I decided to marry again in 2021. I am 54 and my new wife is 25. Since last year I got diagnosed with a condition that makes it hard for my ma.n.hood to be har.d. I have not touched my wife in the bedroom since December 2022. She wanted to take our child and leave but I asked her to stay. One of her conditions was for me to allow her to get intimate with other men. I agreed but asked her to sleep at home everyday and not date anyone who knows me. She doesn’t tell me what she gets up to but I can feel the smell sometimes when she comes home from wherever. It’s difficult but I was trying to get used to it until she told me in January this year that she is pregnant and I must pretend to be the father. My family is so happy about the pregnancy but I’m dying inside. I can’t tell anyone about my condition because it’s embarrassing. I feel like a corpse. The thought of suicide keeps crossing my mind. please I need your counsel.

Please drop your counsel on the comment section.

DEATH IN THE NAME OF LOVE, PT 2.

What wrong have I done to deserve this from you Chris, are you out of your mind?

I got exhausted taking care of you Chris, and as a I result I dosed off and the food on the fire got burnt a little and you thought the best way to resolve this is to lay your hands on me? Anyway am sorry but you know it wasn't intentional.

At this moment Chris became sober, drew her closer to himself in a loving embrace and assured her this kind of a thing won't happen again.

Well they moved on, as Bose buried the incident behind her after all Chris is the love of my life she thought to her self.

You know habit is like a smoke, and you know smoke won't just come up without a spark. Three months down the line, after the first incident, the devil came knocking again with his ugly face.

It was on a weekend both lovers went for an occasion, sighting an old school mate Bose went over the next roll of seats to meet with Kunle.

Wao look at you Bose you are now a big woman, you have transformed from that tiny little skinny girl I used to make fun of way back in school Kunle joked, with this they embraced.

Come over there let me introduce you to my man, Bose led Kunle to where her fiancee was seated and introduced both men. Hey Egbon Kunle I almost forgot our invitation card will be out soon, we are getting married very soon Bose with excitement told Kunle, and you must by all means come and grace the occasion with us, therefore they embraced each other again and Kunle left for his seat.

That embrace was the devil that open the cage for the fire of hell in Chris to consume his lover Bose.

Yet Chris kept his cool but you could feel his anger, you smell it, but he kept his cool waiting for the time they get home and alone.

Hmmmmm, what do you think will be Bose's lots when they get home? .... To be continued.