MY HUSBAND DUMPED ME FOR HIS EX-GIRL FRIEND, NOW HE WANTS ME BACK 3 YEARS AFTER.

 

I never knew it will end up in marriage, but somehow it did, we started out as casual friends after close of work one raining Friday while I find it difficult getting a cab to my destination like in a movie, he just showed up from nowhere, “hi young beauty, where are you heading to? Do you mind me to take you home” he queried? Do you know where am heading to? Well after much talk he was able to convince me and I hopped into his car but very cautious.

Am Johnson and what about you? Yetunde but friends call me Yety, in the course of our journey he brought out his Identity card, with that I got relaxed as he works as a chartered accountant with an accounting firm, well one thing led to another and the relationship blossomed.

Second year into our relationship we did our introduction, and 3 months thereafter we were married, it was a home full of laughter as we were blessed with a baby girl second year of our marriage, in the third year we had a baby boy who look so much like his father, trouble started when my husband started chatting late into the night even while we lay together on bed, and most often he goes out to receive phone calls.

Well each time I confront him about this he always explained it away that it’s all about business, things gradually moved from bad to worse when I bumped into him with another lady while I was fueling my car, I saw my husband with another lady holding hands coming out of an eatery, from where I was I observed how he opened the car door for this lady in question, an act he has never done for me since we got married, I watched them zoomed off.

That evening after dinner I confronted him about his action and before you could say hello, he flared up like a flame will do when petrol is poured into it, I apologized and slept off. I later realized that the lady I saw him with use to be his ex-girlfriend.

What ever happened, my once caring and loving husband turned a monster, he will just flare up at the slightest provocation, and later in stated keeping late nights an act he never did. One bad Saturday yes bad Saturday because that was the day I got the shock of my life. While resting on the couch I heard the door bell and I went to see who was at the door, behold it was the same lady I saw my husband with, I mean his ex. How may I help you I asked? Well with such demonic boldness she just went straight to the point, madam am pregnant for your husband, I got frozen up where I stood, I opened my mouth to talk, not a word came out.

I was able to bring out some words, well he isn’t at home yet I replied, I will wait till he comes she replied can I come in?

Not up to an hour my husband drove in and was not too surprise to see his August visitor, well long story short, my husband didn’t deny this lady nor her pregnancy, I was so heartbroken that I stayed in the hospital for a week. Before I returned home she had already moved into the house, things got to the extreme I couldn’t bear the pains and humiliation no more I moved out of the house with my kids, moved in with my eldest sister who was so supportive, who stood by me, gave me her shoulder to cry on. This pain went on for 3 years and my husband didn’t care about me nor his kids, all these years I remain strong for my kids, we just kept going through it all.

From nowhere after 3 years after, my husband started sending friends and some family members to come plead with me, asking for my forgiveness and that I should come back home, that his life is now upside down since I left. What happened to his new found love I asked? Well the lady recked him, made his life miserable, she forged his signature and ensure all his savings were transferred to an unknown account, what about her pregnancy I asked again? Well she lost the baby, they answered, well she used my husband and dumped him, together with her secret lover they have eloped to Canada.

Now my husband is fighting that I come back to his life may be to help put his life back on track again I guess after I almost lost my life, now am confuse what do I do readers?

 

Yetunde.