A Good Wife, How She Control The Mood On Bed.

              A GOOD WIFE ( WOMAN).

HOW THE WIFE CONTROLS THE MOOD IN BED AND AT HOME

He deliberately waited for his wife to go to bed first. He thought she was asleep, his chance to finally go to bed.

Husbands often do that. They avoid confrontations with their wives, especially when they are having a fight. He opened up the door to the bedroom. Closed the door behind him.

Walked silently to the bed.

He pulled down the blanket and got in.

"I love you" his wife whispered.

"Uhhmm" he gave out a sound and slept facing away from her.

"How was your day my love?" She asked.

He gave out a little chuckle.

She gently pinched his butt.

"You, why are you laughing? Did I say something funny?" She asked him.

There was something about the brightness and warmth in her tone that caught the attention of his heart. "Well, I can't remember the last time you asked me how my day was" he said, still facing away from her.

"Oh my goodness, have I been that bad? I need a spanking" she joked.

He chuckled some more and said, "Oh yes, you need a thorough spanking on your nice round butt"

"Aaah, I see you can't resist bringing my butt into the conversation" she teased some more.

"Haiya! You were the one who started it!?" he wondered. She started rubbing his nipples and saying, "Hmmm, did I? Are you sure it's not you who is being madly in love with your sexy wife?"

He got aroused instantly, something about her surprising personality.

He turned to face her. Pop

"Hey, I thought you were mad at me? Weren't we fighting?" He asked.

"Aah, that is old news. I am not fighting with you. Why should I fight such a sexy husband?" She said looking suggestively deep into his eyes in the dim light, rubbing his nipples.

"What's gotten into you? I love this side of you" he asked as his fingers searched for her nipples.

"Wisdom has gotten into me. I have read this amazing book on marriage and it has opened up my eyes to the power of a wife" she told him.

"The power of a wife? So you are powerful?" He asked.

"Oh yes. Look, I got you to start rubbing my nipples even without you knowing it yet you came in here tip toeing" she joked.

He paused. "Hmm, you are right" he said then went on to start licking her nipples. "I have learnt that, I don't need to pick up a fight about everything. I need to chill. Uuh, your tongue feels so good, don't stop" she said closing her eyes in pleasure.

"I won't stop" he said, as he licked her other nipple.

"I have also learnt that in as much as you are the head of the family and the leader of our love, I actually have the power to influence your leadership. It was my beauty that caused you to take the lead and approach me, my qualities that caused you to take the lead and propose to me, my sexiness that makes you take the lead and get horny for me, my attitude that inspires you to take the lead at home. I make you lead. I am that powerful. So when I have a bad attitude, a bad mood, a combative spirit; I hinder your ability and drive to lead. As the wife, I determine the temperature and atmosphere of the home" she said as he pulled down his boxer.

"You are right, I am so horny for you right now. You awaken the King in me" he said.

He penetrated deep inside her, right there in her wetness. He pumped in, he had missed her sweet pot.

He went in and out. They both started sweating, moaning, the bed carried the weight of two sexual bodies connected by love. They made love.

"Aah! that was sweet. Wow!" He said with pleasure as he threw his body from on top of her. He had climaxed.

"Wow honey, you clearly needed a release. You pushed it in real good" She said as she calmed down from her orgasm too.

"My love, you asked me how my day had been. And to be honest, my day was stressful thinking about our arguments. But I love how my night is. What a perfect way to end the day" he told her as he cuddled her to him.

She rested safe in his arms and said, "I love this. I love us" He kissed her forehead and said, "Earlier on, you told me I love you. Please allow me to tell you that I love you too. I really do"

She closed her eyes smiling.

The power of a wife.

BEFORE YOU SAY I DO, THINK TWICE.

 THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU MARRY. YOU KNOW WHY? YOUR FUTURE DEPENDS ON IT.

Marriage isn’t about wearing rings, posing for pictures, or sharing a house. It’s not about love songs and Instagram reels. It’s a serious life decision. It’s about sharing a life, and that runs deeper than feelings. The person you marry will either become your greatest blessing or your deadliest setback.

Read this carefully:

1. YOUR PARTNER AFFECTS HOW LONG YOU LIVE

If they bring peace, love, and care — you’ll live healthier and longer.If they bring stress, drama, and chaos — your health and mind will rot.

2. THEY’LL SHAPE YOUR CHILDREN

The person you marry becomes your child’s first role model. Their words, actions, and character will either build strong children or destroy them.

3. THEY CAN PUSH YOU FORWARD OR DRAG YOU BACK

Some partners fuel your dreams. Others feel threatened by your growth and work overtime to keep you small. Many have buried their potential in marriage — especially women.

4. THEY AFFECT HOW YOU THINK

A partner with vision sharpens your mind.

A partner without it traps you in mediocrity.

5. THEY AFFECT YOUR REPUTATION

If they misbehave outside — you’ll pay for it. Their bad decisions will drag your name through the mud.

6. THEY CONTROL YOUR FINANCIAL CLIMATE

Some build wealth beside you. Others spend recklessly and drain every cent you make. Marriage affects money. Face that.

7. THEY INFLUENCE YOUR CHARACTER

The wrong person will turn you bitter, aggressive, and dishonest just to cope.

The right one makes you better.

8. THEY AFFECT YOUR PEACE AND MENTAL HEALTH

A good partner gives you peace. A toxic one will depress you into silence and insanity.

9. THEY EITHER ISOLATE YOU OR CONNECT YOU

Some cut you off from friends and family.

Others strengthen those bonds and build your support system.

10. THEY AFFECT PREGNANCY AND CHILDRAISING

Some men watch women suffer through pregnancy like it’s normal.

A caring partner makes the journey bearable and safe.

11. YOU INHERIT THEIR BLESSINGS OR THEIR BATTLES

Some partners come carrying spiritual favor.

Others bring endless battles you never saw coming.

Choose wisely.

12. THEIR VALUES BECOME YOUR HOME’S CULTURE

If they value peace, discipline, and faith — your home reflects that.

If they value pride, manipulation, and laziness — your house will be a war zone.

13. THEIR HABITS BECOME YOUR DAILY NIGHTMARE

That “small” bad habit you’re ignoring now?

After marriage, it grows.

And it’s not changing because you married them.

It only multiplies.

14. THEIR FAITH OR LACK OF IT WILL AFFECT YOU

If you love God and they don’t — brace for frustration. Purpose will clash. Prayer won’t be mutual. Peace will die.

15. YOU’RE NOT JUST MARRYING A PERSON, YOU’RE MARRYING THEIR FAMILY

Their relatives, beliefs, and baggage come with them. And if they can’t defend you when needed — you’ll suffer alone.

16. YOUR PEACE DEPENDS ON THEIR MATURITY

Maturity isn’t age — it’s how they handle problems. Can they forgive? Apologize? Resolve issues without chaos?

If not, brace for hell.

17. THEY’LL EITHER DRAW YOU TO GOD OR PULL YOU AWAY

Some partners help your spiritual life grow.

Others drown your connection with God and your destiny dries up.

18. THEY’LL DETERMINE THE ATMOSPHERE OF YOUR HOME

Some homes feel like heaven.

Others feel like a prison sentence.

And it all depends on who you marry.

19. YOU’LL WAKE UP TO THEM EVERY DAY

This isn’t a weekend hangout.

It’s daily life.

So don’t pick based on looks and hype — pick based on peace.

20. MARRIAGE EXPOSES EVERYTHING

Whatever they’ve been hiding while dating will surface after marriage.

Better to face truth now than drown in regret later.

FINAL WORD

Marriage is not a rescue mission.

It’s not an escape from loneliness.

It’s not a social achievement.

It’s a destiny decision.

Choose someone whose presence feels like peace, not pressure.

Someone you can build with, not babysit.

Someone who strengthens your purpose, not suffocates it.

Think clearly.

Pray hard.

Observe wisely.

Decide sober.

Because one wrong choice in marriage and your life derails.

And you’ll have no one to blame but yourself.

MEN, DON'T DATE A BROKE WOMAN.

 

THE MOST EXPENSIVE BURDEN A MAN CAN CARRY: A BROKE WOMAN.

Let’s settle this like men.

A broke woman is not a partner — she’s a financial liability.

The only thing she consistently brings to the table is sex. And truth is — you can get that cheaper, with zero emotional chaos, from a street corner than the toxic, expensive ride you're on now.  If her only source of income is her private parts and your wallet — you’re not a boyfriend, you’re a business plan.

While you’re catching feelings and breaking your back to keep her afloat, she’s running a quiet hustle where YOU are the product. Remove your money and watch the 'love' vanish.

Stop funding her hair, nails, rent, data, and see how fast those midnight “I miss you” texts disappear. That ‘love’ was a lease — and payment just expired.

 A woman who can’t fund her own survival is an irresponsible adult, not a partner. If she can’t handle her rent, bills, or upkeep — what makes you think she can build a future with you? She’s searching for a sponsor, not a soulmate. Love without financial independence is modern slavery. Although you can give her support as the case may be but, she isn't your 100% responsibility.

You’ll stay trapped in a toxic cycle of guilt-tripping, fake affection, and sex used as a bargaining chip. Every argument will end with “you don’t care” just because you won’t finance nonsense.

Stop feeling guilty for refusing to carry dead weight. You’re not a charity organization. You’re a man with a destiny, a purpose, and standards. A broke, entitled woman will drag you into financial ruin while smiling in selfies.

The fastest way to know a woman’s true intentions? Cut off the money line and see her true intentions.

No dates. No transfers. No surprise airtime. Watch how she moves when you’re ‘financially unavailable.’ 9 out of 10 will ghost.

 Men don’t go broke chasing dreams — they go broke chasing broke women. You’ll wreck your savings, lose your focus, and mortgage your future trying to maintain a woman who contributes nothing but attitude and entitlement.

The right woman multiplies your peace, your money, and your mission. The wrong one multiplies your debts, your drama, and your regrets. Choose wisely.

Don’t confuse sex for value. Millions of women can spread their legs. Few can build legacies. Discipline yourself to know the damn difference.

FINAL WARNING

Brother — your time, energy, and money are weapons. Spend them like a king. A broke woman will drain your pockets, delay your destiny, and derail your progress.

If she can’t solve her own problems, she’s got no business being in your life.

Clear your circle. Guard your crown. Build your empire.

Stop sponsoring liabilities. Start building legacies.

I just want to make some noise.

IT'S NOW ME AND MY HUSBAND.

 

After my younger sister got married before me, she stopped calling me "Sister." She started calling me by my first name. At our first family meeting after her wedding, I drove my car. She drove her husband's.

After my elder brothers spoke, I was about to say something when my mother cut me off:

"Let the married woman speak first." She meant my younger sister.

I quietly stood up and walked to my car. My mother looked at me and added,

"You're not the only one with a car anymore. Swallow your pride and ask your sister how she got a man."

That was the last time I went to the family house.

Months later, I met my amazing husband. We got married. We both agreed not to have children immediately, I'm 27. He's 29. We just wanted to enjoy each other for a while. We were both okay with our decision and didn't owe anyone an explanation.

A year later we attended my younger sister's third child's birthday. She handed her baby to my husband. He smiled weirdly—he loves kids, but he's scared of carrying them. They're too fragile and he fears he might drop them. He passed the child to me gently and quickly.

Next thing my sister made a comment along the lines of, "This one your husband is running away from my baby, why won't babies run away from your home."

She said it jokingly in our language, my husband didn't understand but he saw the look on my face and instead of my mother to reprimand or correct her, she laughed. I calmly returned her baby, turned to my husband, and said, "Let's go." He nodded. No questions asked.

Later, my mother called to say I was petty. That it was just a joke. My brothers called too-asking if I was jealous of my younger sister. But the one person who made the comment? She never called. Not even once.

Fast forward to today. She's pregnant again—baby number four. She and her husband want to travel for a vacation and rest before the baby comes. They need someone they trust to help watch the kids for a few days. Guess who she called?

I told her, "Oh, l'd love to help, but my husband and I are avoiding kids for now, we love our peace and quiet and you understand how important rest is for couples, right?" Now my mother and brothers are calling me wicked and petty. Telling me I should apologize and I politely replied over my dead body.

DANGEROUS SIGNS IN A RELATIONSHIP..

 

The most dangerous time in your marriage is not when you're fighting — it's when you stop.

Not because you resolved the issues.

Not because you found peace.

Not because you've reached understanding — but because you've given up trying.

The silence in your marriage is not peace; it's a sign of surrender.

You avoid deep conversations to "keep the peace."

You stop sharing how you really feel because "what's the point?"

You choose distance over disagreement.

You’d rather be alone than risk another argument.

You're building emotional walls instead of bridges.

Here’s the devastating truth:

Every time you choose silence over speaking up, you’re not preserving your marriage — you're preparing for its end.

The most painful part?

By the time most couples realize this, they're living parallel lives under the same roof.

What your marriage actually needs:

Safe spaces for hard conversations

The courage to be uncomfortable together

The willingness to hear hard truths

The commitment to grow through conflict

The vulnerability to stay engaged, even when it hurts.

Remember:

Arguments aren't what kill marriages.

It’s the silence that follows — when both partners stop believing change is possible.

SECRET OF A WOMAN..

                  SECRET OF A WOMAN.

               (Men Love Your Woman)

At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his wife and his father called him aside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our shouts or threats can frighten. But not to your wife. 

The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued, but women are not changed with fear.

 A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is evaluating the man's weakness and how to subdue him rather.

Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they are suffering consequences

 Those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children's sympathy, the men are at the receiving end.

Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wife'. Do you need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men. 

The 'lion' in men does not scare women or get them to submit to you, it is love that conquers a woman, not force or threats. This might subdue fellow men, but not your wife. Women naturally know how to survive pains. They can walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands. They have resilient spirit.

There are things women fear but not the lion inside men. They can submit and respect their men so foolishly that you imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts men don't have, love your woman into submission.

Men don't have compatible or cordial relationship with women by showing the lion inside them. God knew women before us and begged that we show love than threats. He gave men the formula, recipe for a blissful, joyous and fulfilled homes, LOVE YOUR WIFE!

This formula of loving your wife will help you win her. When a woman is loved, you break all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with a man who is honestly in love with Her.

 Talk gently to your wife, love her, pet her, don't shout at her, and you will win her and make your points! Do not arrogantly display your weakness as a man by shouting.

Side Chick VS Wife. How To Win Your Man's Heart.

 SIDE CHICK VS WIFE (A MUST READ!!!)

HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S HEART:

A brief telephone conversation with a housewife and her hubby's side chick.

Madam: Hello Angela, please, leave my husband alone.

Angela: Hello Madam, sorry I will, but kindly permit me to collect the money he promised me so as to enable me open a saloon.

Madam:  Money? How much is the money my husband promised you?

*Angela:* (afraid.) Erm... erm... it is 250k ma.

*Madam:* Just 250k? Alright, send me your account details.

Alert wole gbam!_ 

Angela: (surprised.) Wow... madam, you sent 450k instead of 250k.

Madam: Yes 250k for the saloon, and 200k for defining your purpose of sleeping with my husband. Don't worry, I was once in your shoes. Please, just leave my husband alone.

Angela:  Thanks and God bless you Ma. But Madam, I have confidential issues to discuss with you Ma.

Madam: Yes, go on...

Angela: (coughs.) Madam, your husband told me that each time you return from work, you just take your bath and go to bed without preparing his meal. You don't as well have romantic discussion with him except you want something important to collect from him.

Madam: (surprised.) He told you that?

Angela:Yes madam. Well ma, let me tell you how I handle him on bed, so that he won't think of going out to look for young girls like us as I have already quit my relationship with your husband.

Madam: (anxious.) Ok, go on.

Angela: Madam, cook soups and vegetables over the weekend. Store in the freezer. Make food and serve with the warmed soup from the freezer. Also, sometimes, once it is 6pm and you are not yet home due to the nature of your work, try to call him and ask him what he will eat even if you won't be home on time to prepare it. Are you with me Ma?

Madam: Yes, I am with you.

Angela: On your way home, visit a good restaurant and get delicious food, then see how best you can get home before him. Dish the food, and since he is not the kitchen type, he won't know if you bought it. Even if he eventually knows, he will appreciate the fact that you care about him

Madam: Hmnn... Go on.

Angela: Then, make sure you wear catapult or g-string pant and a transparent night gown. Lay carelessly in the sitting room as he is eating. Ma, ensure you are wearing his favorite colour pant. He likes white and pink.

Madam: (crazy.) What? _Mo gbe!_ 

Angela: Don't be surprised madam. I am not through with what I am saying or should I stop here? 

Madam:No, no, please go on. 

Angela: Then as soon as he stands from the dinning, ask him how he spent his day, and prophesy to him that tomorrow will be better and that great things will surely come his way. 

Always be positive in your conversation. He told me you always spend such moment either in gossiping about others with him, pressing phone or reminding him of family challenges when you know what he need is rest or words of encouragement after a stressful day.

Madam: (sobs.) Jesus! _Aye mi temi bami!_ So he told you this too?

Angela: Yes, he did. Madam, I am not through. See, after that scene, ensure he takes his bath, and if possible give him body spray and prepare the bed for him to sleep. Don't ask him for sex as you always do according to him. 

Madam: (flabbergasted.) This is serious!

Angela: Very serious Madam. As you make your way to join him on bed, ensure you remove your pant, and sleep close to him with your night gown. Also ensure you use body spray too. Because he complains too much about you not smelling nice.

You can use good body spray. Check the supermarkets for your choice. Concentrate on your armpits too. Madam, after 10 minutes, stylishly look at his manhood. I bet you, the idiot will be protesting. But because he is tired, his strength won't be there to take the first step.

Madam:(shakes her head as tears drop from her eyes.) Angela, how old are you?

Angela: I am 23 years old Ma.

Madam: I have to tell you this, my younger brother deserves a wife material like you. Please, I will transfer another 100k to you. I have a younger brother who is single and rich and I promise not to tell him about your escapade with my husband. I will give your number to him. You are a very nice girl because you just restored my home.

After few days, the husband credited Angela N250k, and in return he got this text message; _"Sir, thanks for this kind gesture. But I think this money is no longer needed. Your children deserve the best. Starving them while you give me this huge amount is unacceptable and God won't forgive us. Have you consider the joy or smile you will put on your wife's face if you give her this money? Please send me your account details. I don't need the money."_

The man replied; _"Your message is touching, never mind, keep the money and move on with your life."_ 

Many of you, yes you married women today, are responsible for all what you are passing through in your marriages. Women now compete with their husbands at home instead of remaining loyal and submissive. Be a royal queen, mother, and wife.

My advise to our married women is that, it is better to approach your hubby's side chick(s) just like the woman did in the above play, then try to know those areas you aren't doing well which the side chick applied. Apply the tricks too to win your man's heart. 

When I say side chick, I am not referring to those night stand girls that he pays after sex. I mean that very particular lady that takes his time more, and make him feel at home each time they are together. She is the only opponent you have. If you are not careful, she will take over your home without using charm. 

That's part of feminine psychology. 

As the saying goes, beauty will do you good by taking you to paradise, but only good attitude will keep you there, or sustain your stay.

May God give us wisdom and intelligence.

Let me also add this; a beautiful face without intelligence is like a cosmetic of foolishness! Women, use your natural brains and whatever you have to protect your marriage. 

HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S HEART

1. Discover his favourite pet name and call him by that.

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain why you behaved the way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say “I am sorry dear”. Whenever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his friends and siblings.

7. Honour his mother and opinions. 

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and be sure that he will do same for your parents.

9. Surprise him with his favourite dish, especially when he has no enough money at hand

10. Do not allow the maids to serve him food when you are at home, because you may lose him to them. And don't allow outsiders to clean your matrimonial room. Its risky.

11. Give him warm reception with an embrace when he returns. Collect his luggage and help unclothe him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional perks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch or purse.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him, “I love you.”

18. If he is a public figure or politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband. Respect him and heed to those attitudes he dislikes.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life. Implement this law that every morning your family will wake up and pray. It brings unity.

22. Value your husband because you may not have the second chance to love him. Pray to God to protect him.

23. If you practice all these, your husband will be afraid to cheat on you; even if he does, his mind will not be at rest.

Kindly share it to others for knowledge sake. Save a marriage!